Hi,
Can anyone relate? Or am I just being a bad mum? At least i feel like a bad mum...
At the moment my son is 2 and 10 months. Sometimes depending on my mood; how tired I am, how stressed I feel, how patient I can be, I find his behaviour really hard to deal with. I guess he could be a typical toddler; at times contrary, very demanding, shouts at me, he hits me when sometimes when he doesn't get his own way. In the last couple of days I have had a bit of a melt down, and felt overwhelmed, I'm also about 30 weeks pregnant and feeling so spaced out. I have really shouted at him a couple of times, and I didn't even really know I was going to shout at him before I did it.
I just snapped and screamed. I felt so tired yesterday and my DS can really push and push the limits.
When I'm feeling on top of things I can be patient, but not in the last couple of days. I feel so guilty about losing control in this way , I mean he's only almost 3 and I'm the adult, and I made him cry. (I feel so ashamed writing that). I also feel that it's a bad example and I've noticed that he shouts obviously because I have. Does it harm them?? Sorry if this is a bit rambly, but does this happen to other mums? When you're on your own, it's easy to look at all the other mums and see them as so patient and perfect. I think, 'I bet so and so doesn't shout at their child', I end up thinking I'm the only one.
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Feeling Guilty for shouting-is it just me??
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whippybamboo · 21/04/2010 21:41
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