I am not sure if this topic has been done before - I couldn't find it in the archives.
I have a 15 month old son, and on the quest to try and do the best I can, have been observing womens' relationships with their adult sons. It seems to me that, in the extended circle of my family and friends, not many adult men have a good relationship with their mother .... not many men "respect" their mothers .... it seems to me that they "tolerate" them. In my own little world of research when I asked men about this, some answers indicated that this is sometimes due to being closeted as a child and not allowed freedom to grow into a man, or because the son felt like he was controlled and manipulated.
Horrified at the prospect of being "tolerated" by my son for the rest of his life, or worse, resented even, but still wanting to provide boundaries and guidelines, I wonder if anyone has either observed a good relationship between mother and son, or indeed have a good relationship between mother and son, and if so, what do you think is the basis for that good relationship?
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koalabear · 11/07/2005 09:14
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ks ·
11/07/2005 23:01
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