DS is 2.5yrs at the end of Feb and I've recently noticed that in situations where other children are around he's pushing them over. Doesn't matter if they are bigger or smaller, younger or older, he'll push them. Sometimes I think it's in fun, but other times it seems like it's just because he can or because he's jealous (eg they have something he wants). Obviously I want to stop him from doing this; so far each time I've stood him to one side, got down to his level and told him it's wrong to push, and to say sorry to the other child (who is generally upset at having been pushed over). I know saying 'sorry' is a bit beyond him vocally (he's not a talker) but I want him to get the idea.
However he's still doing it.
I know an alternative would be to remove him from the situation, ie tell him it's wrong to push and that if he can't play with other children, we'll have to leave. But at present I'm one of the volunteers running our playgroup, so can't leave midway through...
Any other suggestions? Or do I just have to wait it out and keep explaining?
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NumptyMum · 04/02/2010 15:38
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