Really cross with my MIL she seems intent on coming over to our house to see our new ds as much at possible but only when convnient for her.....
she was meant to come over tonight after work which would have fitted in with feeding sleeping ect perfectly but she didn't turn up till 7 and then was stroppy when we wanted to put him down for his sleep which he was ready for consequently I caved into the guilt, kept him up for an extra hour and now he's over tired and has been crying since we put him down.
Second time I've been guilted into seeing her when its not convenient for us - actually am prob more cross with myself than her for not standing up to her....
She was so stroppy that she hung up on dh the other day when he told her that we couldn't have them over on sunday as we were waiting for MW to come but suggested sat morning for a couple of hours instead - She refused as she doesn't get up early at the weekends so ended up being guilted into going to their house them on sat pm which we'd set aside meant to be for me to be resting (have got an infection in my CS wound atm so meant to be taking it easy)....
Don't want to feel constantly obligated to see her at her conveience instead of ours and I actualy don't think its fair to be expected to by her.... At moment she want us to see her every weekend and some week nights too -i don't like spending time with her she's not interested in us, she just wants to see ds - but I still really worry about what she thinks of me and know our ds needs his nan so just need to get a grip and tell her when is and isn't convenient for us....
Really frustrating that my parents have made every effort to make sure when we see them is at our convenience and openly said to tell them if they're being overbearing si makes ILs approach even more of a contrast.....
Right phew! have vented now! sorry for such ridiculous post just needed to get that out.....
Anyone got any tips for managing MILs???
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