Well not fisticuffs obviously but always arguing. I'm sick of being in the middle and trying to keep the peace. I've got the kids all day and try not to constantly moan or tell them off, then dh comes home at tea time and starts telling ds1 off and he's only been in the house a bloody hour! I've told them both to be nicer to each other and I've told dh he's the adult and to get a grip.
Well, great improvement. Had a good chat with dh, who had a chat with ds1 and ds2. They are all getting on much better and I feel really happy dh tckled it this way, he is such a great dad. Of course the boys esp ds1 will still be cheeky, but I'm sure dh will handle it without blowing up!