My husband and I really want another child but when we think about it in a practical way we both get cold feet. He comes from a family with 3 children so I think it seems normal to him to have 3. I just have a brother but always was a bit lonely and would have liked another sibling and always imagined having 3.
My two sons are wonderful (well they have their moments!) and are playing so well together now it almost seems like there wouldn't be a place for another sibling and he/she may get left out, esp. as there would be a bigger age gap between them and the youngest.
We also want to move somewhere bigger which would be practical for having another child, but then to pay for it I would need to work more hours which wouldn't really be possible with another child.
My husbands family live miles away but we visit them a lot and I think this could also be really hard with 3.
I am also a bit worried about the whole trying for a baby thing again with the fear of MC, or not conceiving at all.
Sorry this doesn't make a lot of sense. Basically we are both broody but hesitant! Anyone else in our situation?
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Thinking of baby no 3 - should we or not?
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2babyblues · 06/01/2010 16:30
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