Hi all,
My DD is a bright and articulate 4.8 year old who started reception in Sept 09. During the last week of school before the Christmas hols she began to show signs of school refusal but seemed fine at the end of the day. She has been back for 2 days and it is much worse. She cried and cried yesterday when I left her and today DH took her in and she cried and cried when she left the house.
When we ask her what is wrong and what she doesn't like about school (which, even to my jaundiced eyes, is a good, pastoral school with small class sizes) she merely tells us that she is tired.
I need to give her some way of describing how she feels. As background, whenever she has been in an uncomfortable situation she has used the 'tired' excuse and it dates from me excusing her reticence as tiredness when she was very little. She has always been reserved with people she doesn't know, far more so than any other child I've met, and I didn't want to give her the 'shy' label. So now I've given her the 'tired' label inadvertantly .
So, if anyone has any strategies for teaching my DD to express her feelings I'd be very grateful. Thanks.
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Please help me to help my DD communicate her feelings.
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Callisto · 05/01/2010 09:12
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