he's had timeouts. i tried raising my voice. i've tried calmly telling him. it's been going on long enough now that he knows to say sorry to the victim in a genuine and gentle manner - yet this still hasnt stopped the hitting. i feel like i'm constantly telling him 'no' and disciplining him.
i had another mum snap at me today in the playcentre that my little boy is going around hitting all the other children. i felt terrible. i of course removed him from the play area immediately and kept him out for 5 minutes. he still does it. and my heart just breaks for him since he just doesnt know any better. it feels like i'm a terrible mother.
did a google search and came up with this parenting.ivillage.com/tp/tpbehavior/0,,71g0,00.html which is very supportive and offers a couple of tips i'm going to try.
Finding a lot of help from the following quote from the link:
"Hitting, pushing and grabbing toys are all ways that toddlers use to try to make contact with others, before they develop other social skills. Your son sounds like he is curious about other people. He has limited language and experience, so rather than walking up to someone and saying, "Excuse me. Can I play with you?," he shows his interest by smacking them. Subsequently, he discovers that he can get a reaction when he hits someone. He may even get two reactions, one from the person he hits and one from you. Even though the reactions probably aren?t pleasant, he is intrigued by them."