I have a daughter 21 mo and a friend has a son of the same age. We meet through the children when they were 6 mo or so and things have been fine until the last month or two. Her son is very boisterous compared to my daughter - everything she has he snatches from her, he hits other children and prodded her in the eye yesterday - luckily no harm done but she was very upset and looked at me pleadingly as if to say why are you letting this happen? She physically shies away from him and I have a 7 mo and he is a menace anywhere near her - holds heavy toys near her etc. Mom does tell him but in a half hearted way and he ignores her. I think I have to lessen the amount I see them for a while or just a walk in the park or something (though he will snatch twigs as well!). I am trying to understand mom but I think she needs to be more stern with him and tell him properly (eye contact etc). I fear he will hurt my duaghter and I would not forgive myself if that happened after I had thought all of this. A lot of this is his age of course but I feel he is a real loose canon and if my daughter were older I would try to encourage other ways of dealing with it but she is still very young so I guess removing her from being around him is the best thing?
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bumblebumble · 10/12/2009 13:53
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