We have a goldfish called Findlay who I fear isn't very well and might die soon (for full story see my thread in the pets section). Dd1 (just turned 4) is obsessed with death and what it means and so I explained to her that Findlay might die, that no he wouldn't wake up and we would probably have to bury him in the back garden.
She burst into tears and was so upset I had to find a way to quickly change the subject. She is quite a sensitive child and now I fear that she is going to really start worrying about death and soon work out that we and even she will all die one day.
How have others dealt with this really difficult subject? No-one close to us has died in her life time so we have never had to tackle the subject full on. We have no religious beliefs so although I don't mind telling her "some people believe...." I wouldn't be comfortable telling her as fact that there is anything after death.
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Help I think I have terrified my 4-year-old dd talking to her about death. How do you do this????
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claraquack · 10/11/2009 15:44
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