I really don't know what to do, I feel as though I am actually starting to seriously dislike him.
Everything he does seems to annoy me and the last few days he has been a bloody animal!
Up at 4.30am, we have been woken with a toddler jumping on us for the last year and a half then from then on he just seems to see how much he can do before I end up shouting!
Won't do anything he's told refuses point blank to sit on the potty/toilet (never once sat on either), on Wed morning we woke at 5.30am and thought he'd lay in when we checked his room he was'nt there he had came downstairs into the kitchen climbed up the washing machine and took a permanent bloody marker from the cupboard and drew all over my kitchen cabinets the floor and his face, yesterday morning same thing came downstairs and he had managed to drag the hoover out of the way and go into the cupboard under the stairs and ripped open 3 of his cchristmas presents as well astearing the boxes to shreds trying to play with them!
He goes to nursery 2.5hours a day but that time flies in far too quickly and even when he's there they have said he is a handful and one mum actually asked how I could put up with him all day when she thinks he's hard work in the 5 minutes he lines up outside! Again out of the 9 children in his nursery class he is the one always running wild instead of lining up, he is the one who has to splash in every puddle he sees and the most annoying of all he insists on running through the nursery garden EVERY DAY ATLEAST 5 TIMES even though he has been shouted at by almost everyone there (staff) for it because they are trying to grow flowers and vegetables on it and he keeps trampling everything. Sometimes I'm ashamed to say he's my child
I just feel like I can't deal with him anymore, I have been job hunting in the hope that I might be happier infact I know I would be happier but I can't find anything suitable so I'm stuck here with him all the time.
Discipline does not work no matter what we do talking calmly, shouting, naughty step, putting him in his room and even I'm ashamed to say smacking which I hate doing but when he just keeps going for hours I have lost myu temper although never anything other than a lightr slap on the side of the leg he just laughs or screams at you no matter what I do.
Please tell me that this is a phase that all children go through and he will grow out of it because right now there is no light at the end of all this.
Sorry for wittering I just really need some advice and support right now...
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mamadiva · 06/11/2009 09:17
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