As some of you may know things haven't been great between me and DP. I am disapointed with how, er, pro-active he is around the house and with DS (read - not!). I will be going back to work in the next few weeks and for the sake of my sanity and possibly the relationship I really want to get tha balance between work and home right. For that to happen DP needs to get off of his arse.
My idea so far has been that certain things around the house need to be done on set days. Ie, clean kitchen on Monday, hoovering on tuesdays, etc etc. Our shifts are very varied, DP works four week rotas, four days off four days on, five days off, five days on then back to four. I will be working part time, on his days off. So I will still be doing the majority, as I will be at home more. I discussed this with DP last night, and needless to say he wasn't too keen. He jokingly said it was because it would mean he had to 'do' things, but many a true word spoken in jest!
Does this sound like a good idea? Should I push it further with DP until I (hopefully!) get my way? So far he has not come up with any alternatives. I wondered if you could share what you do so I can compare and contrast and maybe gain some inspiration! If I end up doing what I do now you will have to put up with a very bitter and twisted mumsnetter!!!
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Flossam · 15/06/2005 09:45
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