wtb of hindsight, i sometimes find myself 'regretting' my naivety as a parent during those early years; having never even picked up a baby in my life prior to ds being born. i can now see that there were other parents setting the bar higher from day one; esp wrt encouraging independence and peer interaction - i feel that i overprotected and 'over-babied' him in the nicest possible way. whist i think sleep/feeding routines were great and always worked well, i just wish that i had provided a more varied social life rather than sticking to the same couple of groups almost religiously and always removing him from uncomfortable situations just to stop him crying. i could go on..
he has turned four now so it is a bit late in the day to be considering all this- besides he is a lovely, gentle, chatty little thing - just a bit too babyish and emotionally vulnerable than most others in his nursery class. i was wondering whether these kind of regrets ever go away?
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if you could re-live the first years with dc1 knowing what you know, then what would you do differently?
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zebramummy · 03/10/2009 20:00
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