It has been bothering me for some time.
Ds is 8 an only child who does appear to have freinds at school that he plays with on the playground but thats all.
He doesn,t seem to have made any real close freinds that he wants to invite home not like he did at infant school.
He was new at his current school last year.
He has had very occasional mates back from school but not that many and he is never invited anywhere. I find the whole business of trying to arrange playdates quite stressful and not very rewarding as they are never reciprocated have also never managed to get the kind of socail life that other kids have going for ds where one day they are at their mates and then the mates are at ours.
That aside he doesn,t have any mates outside of school either I am aware that other children frequently play out with other neighbourhood children but ds has never maintained any friendships like this we had alot of problems with fallings out not all ds's fault and now there is nobody that calls for him.
I am at a loss on what to do I would dealry love for ds to have some peer company out of school but I have not got a clue how I get it for him.
I have just started him in some clubs but in all honesty I have only ever found that the people he sees there are just people he sees once a week, for an hour or two and nothing more it has never given him friends as such.
Please help although ds seems happy enough I am sure that he needs company out of school.
I feel as though he must be the only child around who isn,t off out to play with mates once home from school or at weekends and its been bothering me alot of late that poor ds is missing out.
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My ds has no friends outside of school
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xplosive · 22/09/2009 21:54
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