DD is 18 months old. For the last few months, all she wants is Daddy. I love that they have a great bond, but TBH it's getting a little frustrating. All he does all the time is pick her up, cuddle her, kiss her, carries her everywhere, never tells her off and now she won't let go of him if he's in the house. He had to go to the other room to make a phone call, and all she did was scream until he came back. Nothing I did was good enough. Even when she's ill (aren't they meant to want mummy then?) she looks for him. Wakes in the night? Looks for him. I'm starting to feel like a nanny. He encourages this behaviour, if she's crying and I'm calming her, he says things like "Do you want a daddy cuddle? Daddy make it better." I try to tell him it's not helpful, and he can see it's making her clingy for him but he can't change his behaviour. When we're eating, if I'm feeding her, he takes over. If she wants something, he gives it to her. If I'm teaching her to brush her teeth, he takes the brush and does it for her. He tells me he doesn't do it deliberately and I know that but he really can't help himself, and all it does is make her reject me because I'm the one who tells her off.
Don't misunderstand, it's not a case of jealousy, (maybe a little) I just want our daughter to want to cuddle ME sometimes! I feel so second rate. Sometimes during the day she wants him and cries, won't take me at all. What can I do???
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Daddy's girl doesn't want Mummy :(
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Sherida · 19/09/2009 06:42
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