I ask because I nearly lost the will to live over the weekend. I'm the main breadwinner in our household. I have a good job and work 4 days a week. DH doesn't work at the moment. We have one DD who is 10 months. She spends 1 day and 3 mornings each week with a childminder and DH looks after her 3 afternoons.
At the weekends, DH has very little to do with DD unless we're going out as a family (rare) and automatically assumes that I will look after DD for the entire weekend. Whilst I adore DD and want to spend as much time with her as possible it irks me that DH behaves like he doesn't have children at the weekends - disappears to watch the grand prix for the afternoon yesterday then up to his 'office' to play on the computer etc on the assumption that I will do the childcare. Bit fed up if I'm honest of being primary earner, carer, cook, bill payer, laundress and everything else.
Anyone else got any experience of DHs/DPs who do similar and any advice?
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Sallypuss · 14/09/2009 13:38
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