DW grew up in a big, boisterous family and had to fight for her share of everything - the kind of household where time on the TV/computer was blocked out on a timetable to the last minute and a detailed record was kept of who had had the end of the Arctic Roll last time. That kind of thing drives me insane.
(And she now likes nothing better than "family days" where they all get together and talk loudly over each other. I hate this kind of thing with a passion and would rather have my teeth pulled out.)
I grew up with a much older brother and sister who had more or less gone from home by the time I was about 7/8, so I never really had to share anything and had my parents almost to myself, so it was almost like being an only child.
The result of this is that I find it really disturbing, and almost physically painful, when DD and DS squabble and I sometimes can't even bear to be in the room. DW thinks it is all "normal." You do hear stories of people who grew up and "got on fine" with their siblings of similar age, and I often longing wonder why mine can't be like that...
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If you didn't have close brothers and sisters (or none at all) do you find sibling squabbling disturbing?
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UnquietDad · 09/09/2009 16:45
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