I feel absolutely awful for typing this but how do you deal with them? DD is almost 5 weeks old, and her dads mum is constantly pestering us to let her stay overnight at her house, 30 miles away.
She always phones/leaves messages on FB/leaves me voicemails if I ignore miss her calls, asking when "I'm going to get off my arse and bring her granddaughter to see her as she doesn't want her growing up not knowing who she is" She's 5 weeks old fgs! She laughs when she says it to make it seem like a joke, but I don't find it very funny any more.
We make the trip up there once a week, usually Sunday, it's the only time we can make it as I don't drive and he works all week.
As soon as we get there, she snatches the car seat off me, whisks DD into the living room, and whether she is asleep or not - will either get her out, or poke and prod at her whilst cooing in her face and shouting her name. She also whacks me away whenever I go to my own bloody daughter, saying "She's in my house now, my turn!". Then continues to constantly ask when she can stay over, and reels off a list of days which are convenient for her.
I do stand up to her, but as she makes it seem like she is just joking - there's only so much I feel I can say without just wanting to whack her one
I find her completely suffocating, but everybody else seems to think it's normal. I don't want her staying out, I don't see any need for my 5 week old baby to be away from me overnight. I'm not that exhausted, and even if I was - it'd do me no good as I'd spend my night awake wondering if she was okay.
Am I being a bitch? Is she just an excited grandma or an annoying git? If the latter, any tips on how best to deal with her?
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SheWillBeLoved · 31/08/2009 12:31
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