Did you just know for sure that you didnt want anymore and do you feel broody when friends have babies? (sorry I know that is two really!)
There are 3yrs and 1 months between ds1 and dd3 (with a dd inbetween) and while I have loved having them close together I had spd with dd3 and by the end I was in a lot of pain and found it hard to walk. I dont think I could go through another preg especially if it was like DD3's and I came pretty close to breaking point in the first few months of having her.
But I cant get rid of this feeling that I want/need another. I always wanted 4 but know that I would really struggle with a 4th. DH and I have decided we are not having anymore and I know it is the right decision for us but I cant shake the feeling that I am ment to have another and that my family are just not complete. I know it sounds crazy! I am hoping it is just that DD3 has just turned 1 and not a baby anymore and me just having to let go of the babydom. The funny thing is though, I have never really enjoyed the baby or preg part and have loved it each time when they get to about 6months and start being a little person. I wonder if I would feel like this even if we did have a 4th!
Any input welcome.
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A question for those who have decided that they are not having anymore children
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Dragonhart · 25/08/2009 19:34
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