me and my dp got together when ds was 2yo. He is 8 nearly 9 yo now and regards him as Daddy. Generally they get on and I know they love each other very much. During the past few months there have been several occasions which have upset me (and my son). Dp is a bit of a bully and had a rough upbringing, dad was an alcoholic etc. He has different opinions to me but is a nice guy - most of the time. When he shouts at son my son looks at me sometimes as if to say help! Then dp says why are you looking at your mum? She cant help you Im talking to you. I have often tried to intervene and explain sons actions or reasons for doing something, dp doesnt see it that way, he says I am interfering and making him a mommys boy. This isnt the case, he just doesnt understand him. Exmaple, on holiday ds asked how much money we had left.dp said 500 euros an ds said wow thats alot. dp flared up and said no its not, i merely said that 500 anything is alot to a child and he starting going on about he must learn the value of money!FGS he is 8!!! That is just 1 examplt, there are many more.As it kept happening and dp keeps going on about ds being mommys boy, its starting to worry me as its getting ds upset and he looks very confused.Is it me or what??? Any other similar problems out there???
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dp treating ds badly IMO - is it me?
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shatteredmumsrus · 18/08/2009 20:36
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