Divorce and children what can you do?

[pmoo]

I'm divorced and while I still think a child would be better in one house for the majority of the time, the courts thought differently. I would never have stopped my daughter from seeing her dad, but I don't like her being passed around like a parcel for shared parenting. She spends half the time with me and half the time with her dad.I have objections to this the main one being that in her dad's time she spends more time with his parents than him, which I think is totally wrong. I'm the one that is having her in tears because she's not seen much of her dad and now she says she feels he doesn't want her (she doesn't like his girlfriend as she doesn't seem to like her and she has to be quiet all the time!) What do I do? I want my daughter to be happy but it worries me that she's feels not wanted by her dad, I'm sure this insecurity isn't helped by being passed home to home, please help!!!

[poppy34]

How old is your dd?

[pmoo]

She's 6