So what do I do?
Ds is (only just) 5 and dd1 nearly 3 1/2, there is also dd2 who is 10 months. I have spent what feels like far too much of the hols trying to placate dd1 and ds as they compete to sit next to me, hold my hand, be on my knee whatever it is they can find to compete over they will it is incredibly wearing - I am usually the only person they fight over but they also always want the same as the other has and preferably first.
Ds is incredibly competitive about most things it is like everything is a race and he has to win (much like his father in that respect). DD is less competitive in that sense but she does not share very well with her brother and is very possesive of me and anything she takes a fancy too(generally anything pink so of course ds wants all the pink things too!).
I have run out of ideas to cope with this so can anyone suggest ssome simple strategies to prevent my little darlings from tearing me in half one day (they can be inhumanly strong when in conflict!).
They are generally so lovely that it is awful when they get locked into this stupid battle for my attention especially as when they have it they seem to lose interest in me very quickly - the fights the thing!
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3yo and 5yo in near constant competition over me - I am a rather grumpy and shouty 'prize'
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Bigmouthstrikesagain · 15/08/2009 22:16
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