I feel as though I am the only one to feel like this and that everybody else has a great social life lined up for their ds during the holidays hence why nobody ever bothers to contact us and ask if my ds wants to come and play or invite him on a day out with them.
Its all getting me down now and I don,t know what to do.
I text people to ask if their ds wants to come to ours and play with my ds and sometimes they do reply but alot of the time they don,t.
I have other parents who promise that my ds can come to theirs but it never happens.
I have taken other parents children out during holidays etc and spent money on them but I just don,t seem to have ever been able to build up any real good relationships for my ds.
My dh thinks I go over the top with this and that I am starting to go over the top with my trying to get friends here for him and that I am making a nuisnace of myself.
Everywhere I go I see groups of children playing together whether it be over the park or in the street and my ds only ever gets the friends over that I break my neck to keep inviting
He is 7 and an only and there isn,t even anyone available for impromptu play in the neighbourhood.
I would like ds to have some more regular company instead of me having to flog myself to death with people who half the time don,t reply to my texts and who never get in touch with us.
I have had him in clubs, and activites during the holidays as at least he gets peer company that way but of course when the activity is over we are in the same situation and I do wonder if its worth it with children who he will never see again anyway.
Please is there anyone who feels like this
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I feel so discouraged with my attempts to gain company for ds
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rayban · 13/08/2009 15:48
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