He is DS1 and I have a 22mo DD. I love him to bits generally and he is a very bright and linguistically clever little boy and when he is not being a pain in the bum, has a great deal of empathy for his age.
However (big draw of breath)for the last 2 weeks he is totally doing my head him - not listening to me, not doing what he is told, then when told off, nonchalently saying 'ok, ok' and then doing said naughty thing again. Then he will have days of being really demanding, having massive toddler style tantrums etc. reverting back to toddler behaviour - pretending he cant put his shoes on, wont eat food properly etc.
After 2 solids weeks of him being really (I mean really) naughty I smacked his bum really hard today. And I have taken his bed time bear away also - all with lots and lots of warniong if he carried on with his behavoiur this was the final straw. I have done sticker charts,naughty step, taking toys away, up to his room, ignoring him....
So now I am a bad mother who cant control her son all of a sudden. My DH keeps implying its all my fault and we need to 'talk' about our parenting of him. Part of me thinks he is so ready for school next month and also a growth spurt?
Suggestions please....
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My 4.5 year son is driving me fecking nuts
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Boobalina · 07/08/2009 16:57
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