excuse lack of punctuation, ds2 is on the boob just now... just looking for some opinions on this. ds1 is 21 months old and generally a sweet sensitive wee boy, loves to be affectionate, has always played nicely with his toys, not been too wild etc. he loves rough play too though esp with daddy. daddy is playing with him more lately due to ds2 coming along 2 weeks ago and being permenantly attached to me. so there is more rough play, daddy throws toys in the air, ds1 thinks it's hilarious so copies it, daddy splashes in the bath so now ds1 soaks the entire bathroom, daddy pretends to fall over if ds1 'pushes' him, so ds1 now being heavier handed etc etc etc........you get the picture!
so i said to dh that he shouldn't be teaching ds all these bad habits (imo) but he said it's just boys play and i need to get used to it now we have 2 boys. i know rough play is fun and good but i'm also worried ds1 will go and push another child etc. he has started throwing his toys and books around which he never did before and is shouting 'no!' all the time, do you think this could be related to all the rough play or just to do with adjustment to ds2 arriving, or just that point in his development? Dh doesnt want ds1 to be 'a sissy' either so thinks he should keep playing with him the same way, although dh does appreciate ds's more sensitive side too. we ended up arguing over it so would be interested to see what others think.
anyone been in this situation? thanks for any advice
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advice on how to balance 'rough play' with being 'sensitive'?
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ilikeyoursleeves · 03/08/2009 13:32
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