Hi
I do have quite a few playdates back at my house for my ds who is 8 and an only.
I know that I probably find this easier than most people as I only work part time, only have one child no other siblings to consider etc.
I even take my ds and his mates out and spend money on them fool that I am.
However my ds is never invited anywhere, never given a return invite at all.
I just find it mind boggling tbh as to how other parents can see you doing all of this and not offer a return ever.
We have had parents say that my ds can come to theirs but it never comes off and I do wonder if I should keep on inviting their children when they still haven,t carried out their promise to my ds.
Worse of all my ds has picked on all of this and is becoming a little resentful.
I just carry on inviting despite all of this as I figure that my ds needs to have friends here with him being an only.
Just wondering if we are the only ones like this.
I just don,t get it.
Am I doing the right thing to keep on inviting these parents dc's anyway or am I a mug.
Even those parnets with one dc like me are the same.
I am beginning ot think that there is something off putting about ds and I.
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I find it mind boggling that the playdates are never reciprocated
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crazedupmom · 01/08/2009 23:01
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01/08/2009 23:14
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