she has always been the biggest handfull you can imagine, i often wonder how i get through the days sometimes but usually she can have a sweet side as well.
recently though her behaviour has got so much worse, she is so emotional and i feel like she spends all her time in tears, she can turn it of as quick as she starts though.
she makes other childrens lives hell shouting at them calling them stupid and idiots, she tries to strangle other children and give them nipple twisters.
i have no idea how she would even know hw to do these things and we never call her stupid or call her a idiot.
it does not matter what you do to try and punish her you can see her eyes glaze over and nothing enters her head, i keep her in till she has calmed down then as soon as she goes back out to play she is at it again.
the latest thing is lying, i lose count of the ammpunt of lies i hear her say in a day, even stupid things like coming in and saying her sister is doing something, i tell her its fine then she will go out and tell dd1 that she is in trouble. she has also told the girl next door that i called her a "bumhole"
i really have had it, i cant cope with her anymore.
i have always thought that she had a lot of symptoms assosiated with adhd but am worried that the doctor will think i am a bad mum and cant cope if i take her to see him.
as soon as her eyes open in the morning its like "ping" and thats her in full hyper destructive, abusive mode till she goes back to bed at night. inbetween this i have her destroying the house and running in and out the house all day.
its like she never grew out of the toddler stage and i have been coping with the terrible twos for years.
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had enough of 5yo dd hurting and shouting abuse at other children.
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shavenhaven · 30/07/2009 17:19
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