DD is 15wks, DS is 2.5. With DS i obsessed over every feed and nap, what time, how long etc. and then worried if he didn't do either on time. So with DD I've not kept time of any feeds or naps - I don't have the time even if I wanted to, and I do prefer it this way as I don't worry about her nap or feed times when going out, just get on with it and fit them in with whatever we're doing. However, I still really have no idea when she's next going to feed or nap and feel like it's all a bit of a mess now. I still feel like I'm stuck on the sofa half the day and that DS isn't getting a look in, or is being shushed to try and let DD sleep.
When she has the peace and quiet to do it, she will have a really good nap, up to 2 hours sometimes, but this doesn't often happen as DS usually makes a noise which wakes her - I can't always get her up to her cot to nap, as she will sometimes need resettling a few times, and taking DS up would just wake her more, and I couldn't leave him downstairs. So more often that not, she cat naps, having a snooze whilst she feeds, or getting grouchy after a while of playing and then feeding to help herself get to sleep. I never have the time to watch her that carefully to catch the sleepy signs, but try and put her in her chair in a quiet place or down in the basket, when I think she's been awake a while.
I'm not a strict routine person, so don't want to be ruled by the clock, but hoped some kind of pattern might have emerged by now - if it has I've missed it!!! which would help me know when to get her up to her cot so she gets the peace and quiet to settle herself, and DS gets to run riot have some time with mummy- DS goes to nursery one day a week and I can't even see a pattern on those days. Any suggestions? TIA.
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bethdivine · 28/07/2009 14:39
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