ds has always been a bit of a home body. HIs prefered activity generally involves me paying constant attention to him and doing what he wants. He has become increasingly difficult to get to go anywhere and it is doing my head in. Every step in getting ready is a major tantrum, the outing itself is usually horrific with whining, shouting and general bad behaviour wanting to go home. we have tried getting him involved in where we are going and making sure there are some aspects of the outing that will appeal to him but he just wants to stay home. Have offered to get his minder over for times when we need to somewhere and he refuses but he was absolutely distraut by this idea and frankly he is very hard for someone to take on willingly
(ie not fair on the minder0 and we have at least a week of trauma afteerwards. He is 4.10 and has aspergers.
Have tried social stories, picture cards, bribes, small steps eg trip to the letterbox and back but it is becoming reaaly hard work especiaaly as he wants constant input at home
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yawningmonster · 26/07/2009 05:19
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