When I calmly and simply explain to dd that I find it frustrating when she makes deliberately loud noises near ds when I'm trying to put him to sleep, she doesn't get it.
When I get frustrated with her, she understands.
(I snarled at her to go to her room and read a book until I was ready to come and play with her).
I was feeling bad for getting cross with her today when I was trying to feed ds to sleep (very cranky, overtired, teething boy). I was feeling crap, in fact. Beating myself up for resorting to snapping at dd.
Then I wondered if she needs to understand that her actions have effects on other people. Shouting at the baby when I'm trying to get him to sleep makes me cross. And that's okay for her to understand that.
What do you think?
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HuffwardlyRouge · 23/07/2009 20:12
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