Hi all
I've been thrown into being a "mum" to a teenager, with absolutely no previous experience.
I've known my partner's daughter from a previous relationship since she was 9, she is now 13. Her mother died suddenly in March this year and she will be moving in with her dad and I in the middle of August.
Clearly it's been a difficult time for everyone but we thought she'd been handling it fairly well. The catalyst was always going to be having to leave her friends and current school (we live 50 minutes away) and we're at that point now - it's the last week she'll spend at her current school.
She is absolutely distraught at having to move away from everything she knows, she is a really quiet child and I know her main worry is around making new friends. She's already spent a transition day at her new school which was successful but now I feel like we're back to square one.
She won't open up to her dad, and I desperately need some advice on how I can build that relationship with her to help her get through this awful time. I'm struggling - I've gone from 0 child experience to having a teenager in only 4 months...!
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Help needed - coping with a teenager in difficult circumstances
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zoev · 15/07/2009 22:01
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