Hi
Its a bit of a silly one really but when my ds left his old infant school and moved to a new school there was one good freind he had were me and the mom said we would keep them in touch.
I have always done this since they left however I have to stress that its always me that texts her to ask if her ds wants to come and play, come on a sleepover etc.
I am pretty sure that if it wasn,t for my efforts that they would not have seen each other again.
I have never had a problem with the fact that its always been me that has contacted them I have found that generally this is usually the case with most people I realise that people have busy lives and other siblings to contend with etc.
What is annoying me with this woman of late is that she never replies to my texts.
She will usally say things like I am scatty and if I don,t reply text me again, or I got your text and then I forgot about it.
I am getting fed up and feel as though I am banging my head up a wall and feel like not bothering anymore.
I would very much like to keep hers and my ds's relationship going but have started to wonder if she feels the same way.
I am not sure if maybe she is bothered about keeping the relationship going or not.
I would hate to think I am making a nuisance of myself and would prefer it if she told me straight.
What do you think do you think she is scatty or do you think she is ignoring me.
I realise that now they are at differnt schools that they have other freinds but I have never seen a problem in keep this relationship going.
My ds really wants to see her ds again and when her ds comes to ours he always seems happy to be here.
I wouldn,t want to look too pushy by phoning her.
What do you think do you think she is not replying because she's not bothered anymore or is she scatty as she says.
The first few weeks after they left she always responded straight away to my texts.
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tevion · 02/07/2009 09:30
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