A mini problem I would just like a bit of advice on if possible from you wise MNers.
DS 2.5 has a good range of friends and they have always played well together. A couple of the friends, in different friendship groups are going through the snatching/pushing/pulling phase. Parents are handling it reasonably well and (mostly) tackling it when they see it, which is great, but it is happening soooo frequently and I can see it is starting to affect DS.
However, Ds is really kind hearted, doesn't retaliate or become aggressive, but it is starting to make him sensitive and ultra aware of others nearby and he seems to be getting upset when he is always really happy and settled. So my first question is what have you done in situations like this.
On top of this a mum of one of the DC's who does most of the pushing is now making a big deal out of DS getting upset and asking loudly about why he is upset and doesn't seem aware that it is because he is having to deal with snatching pushing etc constantly from her DC, I feel bad saying why I think he is upset as I don't want to look like I am blaming her DC and I am relaxed in that it is a phase that the other children are going through, and DS will probably go through soon too, but at the same time I feel DS is being judged iyswim. What would you do?
Sorry for long rambly post, mix of off loading and advice needed.
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MIAonline · 01/07/2009 13:13
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