hi, would just like to chat to a few experienced co-sleepers
DS (9 weeks) settles well in his cot and we like having the bed to ourselves so we can sleep deeply without having to stay partially aware of the small person next to me, but I do like to co-sleep sometimes (eg if he's very unsettled, or has a cold, after his jabs, or just sometimes during a daytime nap to feel close to him) but I lack confidence about how safely I am doing it
We're not smokers and rarely drink (wouldn't co sleep if we did)
mattress is not the best so has a mattress protector so we dont feel the springs as much which makes it a bit spongy - it is fairly firm.
he always sleeps between me and the wall. never between us as DH is a slightly fitful sleeper.
I've read not to do it if you're very tired! isn't every new parent very tired? I worry that I sleep too deeply to co-sleep.
do all you co-sleepers replace your duvets with sheets and blankets?
where do you position the baby (in line with your head? in line with your chest?)
do you go without pillows?
exactly how do you position the blankets so that you stay warm but its safe for LO?
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salbysea · 21/06/2009 20:57
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