Thanks, have managed to put on cloths (the oldest tracksuit i have) look like a minger. One child and i bit have been dressed. Getting there slowly. Feel like i do the same thing day in day out never changes. DP see kids for 1 hour in the evening. O so feed up with it all.
really sympathise. You're not a bad mummy, just knackered and disillusioned. I had a lot of days when mine were really tiny where I didn't bother dressing them. Can identify with the bit about not seeing DP too.
Do you go to anything like toddler groups / regular meet-ups with mates / playgroup at children's centre?