Up until my daughter was 7 months I had next to no structure in the day. I was living abroad and mentally 'put off' any idea of a routine until I got back to the UK and started weaning. Plus I was exclusively breastfeeding and she was small at birth so I was pretty much feeding round the clock -- that wouldn't have really fitted any routine.
But now I'm back in the UK and getting more settled all my friends pity me as my baby does not sleep through and still breastfeeds quite frequently.
Philosophically I am sort of anti a strict routine. I enjoy my baby and like to think (stress on the 'like', I have no idea really) that I respond to her cues. But I've read a bit about the less strict routines and because I'm a bit sleep deprived I'm losing some of my confidence and now beginning to think that I'm doing my daughter a disservice by not training her to sleep through or settle by herself.
I'm at a bit of a crossroads. I read a bit of Baby Whisperer online and it sounds sensible-ish, but a little joyless I have to say and her tone is a little 'if you don't do this you are 'accidental parents' and that's a Bad Thing.'
What is an accidental parent? Am I one? Is it bad? Should I try this to restore a better structure?
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Baby Whisperer - pro or anti structured routine
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dorisbonkers · 04/06/2009 12:04
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