I am at my wits end and have no idea how to settle my baby without breastfeeding her to sleep.
I haven't read any books although I ripped up a Gina Ford one someone gave me (a decision I may end up regretting!) and I do have the NCSS but that's in bulk shipping and won't reach me for a few weeks as I've just moved from Singapore to London.
Basically I knew I'd be repatriating back to London when she was six months, so I had a 'all bets are off policy' when it came to any sleep/nap training. Until now I've lent towards the AP style and I wear her (don't have a pram) and sleep with her. Plus, she was a little, early baby and slowish gaining weight so I basically NEVER passed up an opportunity to feed her.
All this means that she won't nap without me feeding her to sleep and gingerly putting her down. She often wakes straight up or lasts about 15 mins asleep. She very very rarely goes more than 30 mins for a nap and that's usually when I'm carrying her in a wrap shopping.
Bedtime is becoming a nightmare. She's usually up with us for meals (just started BLW) but then I have to feed her regardless of whenever I last fed her to sleep so I hardly ever get a minute to myself and Mr Bonkers.
She doesn't sleep all the way through the night but generally does last some time.
On some days I'm happy to go with the flow and let her dictate but increasingly I'm feeling utterly drained, unable to sort out the messy flat I've moved back to, or even cook.
Last night was a nightmare. Mr B out for drinks while she kicked and thrashed about in bed for hours. I think I got one or two hour's sleep.
Although as I said I lean towards AP, but I'm at the stage I'm willing to try anything (maybe not crying it out perhaps), so any advice? Thanks from a frustrated and tearful new mother xx
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dorisbonkers · 17/05/2009 21:31
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