DH is sure he does but I have v mixed feelings.... Basically I didn't really like being pregnant, had a hideous birth experience, had postnatal depression and didn't like breastfeeding. However, now DD is older I think she's absolutely fabulous and adore every minute I spend with her. I think the real problem is that I'm simply just not really a baby person (am I allowed to admit that on Mumsnet?!?!)
I'm very close to my sister and would like DD to have a sibling, I'm just not that keen on going through pregnancy and birth again or the horrible sleep deprivation bit with a newborn. Oh, and a friend told me that 2 kids is 4 times as much work as 1 which has put me off further. And my final concern is that I won't love a second child as much as I love my DD.
Would love to hear the views / experiences of mums of 2, 3 or more and those who decided to stick with 1 DC.
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Help! I'm really confused about whether I want a second child!
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YaddaYaddaYadda · 06/04/2009 19:32
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