DSD has been invited to a sleepover at the house of a new girl in her class. DSD does not make friends easily and so we have been encouraging this friendship as she is a really nice little girl. We have had the girl to play, and DSD has been there in the day. Mum and step-Dad seem nice, though according to the girl (so DSD says)he is a bit shouty at times.
I have spoken to the parents plenty and they know I am a social worker, as they have picked my brains about his concerns about his ex's custody of his daughter etc etc.
So they seem fine.
BUT - I am a suspicious person by nature of my work, and by generally being a parent. And I don't really know them, however pleasant they seem. I don't want to wrap DSD up in cotton wool and I know most people are fine and she has always really enjoyed going there. I will never be mates with these people as nice though they are, it's not that kind of relationship, we don't have much in common. DSD knows about telling us if anything made her uncomfy or unhappy. I don't want to stop DSD becoming more independent or nip a promising friendship in the bud.
So - do I let her go? Would you?
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Sleepovers - how well do you have to know the parents to agree to one?
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EllieG · 07/03/2009 11:52
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