Just need some straightforward advice from more experienced mothers pls. Apologies in advance for the pfb nature of the question!!
Dd (5 yrs was naturally very "brave" as a toddler. She bounced around, fell over, got up again and always smiled and never complained, even when she had bashed herself quite heavily.
For about the past year though (since her 4th birthday approx) her behaviour has done a complete 180°C in this sort of situation and she cries and makes a HUGE fuss about the tiniest little scratch or minute bump and then goes on (and on) crying.
Two questions:
- are all five year olds drama queens?
- what's the best way to handle this pls?
At the moment I am vacillating between
(a) reassuring her calmly and saying "your fine - no harm done - let's kiss it better" type thing and trying to ignore, distract and move on swiftly ...
(b) taking it very "seriously" and saying "oh you poor thing, let's have a big hug, let's have a look, let's find you a cream and some plaster" and trying to see it from her point of view in the hope that that would "satisfy" whatever need she has from me at that moment ...
Both methods seem to prolong the wailing rather than shorten it though tbh ...
Any advice pls? She's a very bright/sunny/lively child with a well developed humour the rest of the time ..