HI girls, I dont feel I can tell my nearest and dearest that some days I really feel like I dont know whether Im coming or going with parenting. I get asked if my 4 MO sleeps through - you've gotta be joking? He wakes every 2 hours - I feed on demand. A couple of months ago he was only waking once in the night and I thought I had it sussed! Now I dont know whether Im coming or going. Routine? Please - whats that? Should he have a routine now? Re bedtimes - I have been trying to get him fed and in bed by 730 - 830 and until this week thats been working pretty well. However for some reason he is napping now for 20 mins or so when I put him down and not sleeping for several hours like he used to so thats all gone pear shaped too and hes sitting here looking and me, as lively as can be at 9.30pm. Ive just spend 2 hrs feeding, rocking, walking and patting to no avail and have given up! I have a very supportive DH who thinks im doing a great job but I feel Im just surviving and have no idea what the bigger picture is anymore or what I should be doing to make life more straightforward in the longrun. Family tell me Im making a rod for my own back - I feed on demand, I rock him to sleep, I go get him when he cries - but I dont know any other way and that just feels like its what I should be doing. Ive loooked at GF books briefly on routines etc and I broke out in a cold sweat - they dont mention being in PJs at midday and trying to get a shower by 4pm - not for me but if theres any words of wisdom from experienced mums Id be glad to hear them!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
first time parent - routine - are you joking?
43 replies
rollercoaster1 · 02/02/2009 21:36
OP posts:
100yearsofsolitude ·
02/02/2009 22:12
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.