ds has a friend. she is 10 or 11 i think. like his other friend in the street, when she asks if he can play, i know it means they are going to come here. this annoys me at times but generally they are old enough to not be too much of a pain (and she is very well behaved). im very often cleaning or doing the garden for example, when she's here and thats fine, i can leave them to play and know they cant come to any harm in my garden or in my house. (they will play wherever i am). however, now its warmer she has been bringing her little sister with her (3 ish) and i dont want her here. now before i sound horrible, it isnt because i dont like the sister and if i had invited them then fair enough, i would have set aside time to watch them. but nine times out of ten, like ive said, they sort of invite themselves. i dont want to be responsible for watching someone elses toddler when im trying to do my own jobs. trouble is, the mother always sends out the little one with her elder sister so if i have one here, i have to have the other. i think its very sad also that this child is responsible for the little one. how would you handle this?
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