My best friend gave birth just over a week ago to her first, much wanted, baby. She stayed in hospital for 6 days and is feeding the baby herself, but since she has come home she really seems to be struggling.
The baby cries (which she cannot bear to hear even for a moment), she's having conflicting advice about getting him latched on properly, the baby's not into any kind of set feeding pattern, going from wanting a feed every hour and a half to sometimes going 5 hours between feeds and it's really wearing her out and getting her down.
I know lots of this is normal and feeling overwhelmed and stressed and very very tired comes with the territory, but I just feel she is struggling and I wish I could help.
I live 2 hours away and went to see her earlier this week and she looked shattered, was tearful and just seemed so overcome with it all I just wanted to take the baby off her fora couple of hours and give her a rest. I rang her last night and she just sounds so down and beaten basically. I'm trying to tread the fine line between being supportive and interfering, but I really don't know what else I can do from here.
Any help/advice would be appreciated!
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BibiJesus · 04/12/2008 16:28
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