We have just moved from a city to a village with our house being opposite a small, but rather lovely wood.
When I take my four and a half year old dd to go look at some autumn leaves or to hunt for bugs, mushrooms or even fairies in the wood she WHINES. Non-stop. No fun is had by anyone except maybe her baby sister who sleeps through all of it.
Dd1 says: This is not fun for me! I don't like walking in woods! This is not what children like to do!
I think she is spoilt and that she doesn't know what fun is unless it is so clearly signposted as such (carousel, pink icecream) that it looses almost any appeal to anyone more sophisticated than a five year old. I want to do things that I think we should all be able to enjoy.
Dh thinks I am expecting too much and offered to take dd1 to the local tacky seaside resort next Sunday leaving me and the baby to explore the wood in peace (or even to experience the highly sophisticated pleasure of a lie in).
This is tempting, but I feel uneasy about it. Like I am letting my daughter down by not showing her how to enjoy the wood, the countryside, the river, the lakes etc. etc. All the things we are here for rather than back in the city.
Who is right?
If I drag dd1 into the wood enough times, will she begin to like it?
Do other four year olds like woods or is it their parents who like them?
Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
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Do all four year olds whine in woods?
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Leda · 27/10/2008 19:39
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apostrophe ·
27/10/2008 21:30
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