DH was picking up the DCs today from school. DS was out of school at 3.35 and then they need to wait until 4pm until DD finishes her ball skills club.
I got a panicked phone call from him at 4.20 saying there was no sign of DD. I said to go into school and check where she was, as sometimes the girls get chatting when getting changed which holds them up.
As I hung up on him, I had a call come through from a land line number which turned out to be DD (10yo) calling from one of her friends house - saying she had gone home with Anna and had been trying to call us to let us know. (my mobile and Dh's mobile both show that she tried several times around 4pm. Neither of us got the call because I was driving at the time and DH went to school without his mobile.
As the calls were made at 4pm from the friends house, then it appears that she also excused herself from her after school club too - and must have left school at 3pm.
I am absolutely furious with her and even more furious at the other parent (who takes a child from school without at least ensuring that the parents know?
DH has been sitting at school for 50mins waiting for her and now we will have to do a round trip of another 50mins to pick her up adn bring her home.
I am plotting the most henious punishments known to small girls and I imagine I am overreacting.
My options are:
- send her to her room for the evening as soon as she gets home (which I am planning on doing anyway)
- Say she cannot go to the halloween party that she and this friend have been planning for ages.
- Cancel her after school hockey and/or netball club until Christmas.
Believe me, there are several more horrible things I feel like doing right now
Or are we to blame for not being in mobile contact?