My daughter is really pushing my buttons at the momment. She is a very bright, chatty, independent and bossy 2.9 year old. But her behaviour towards me latley is just terrible. We have just moved house 2 weeks ago, to a totally new area, so im prepared to give her a bit of slack for that, but not a lot. Today when i picked her up from playgroup she was fine, until i said we were going straigh home and not to the park. She screamed at the top of her voice she was not going home, she didnt love me and she didnt care. Then she SPAT at me. I could not believe it. I told her in a very stern voice that was very bad behaviour and we were going home. She would not come and just screamed no at the top of her voice. I told her yes, that was what was happening, and i had to frog march her home, holding her arm, with her screaming ' let go of me; dont touch me' ' i dont love you' at the top of her voice. When we got home she threw a mighty tantrum on the floorl before i put her on the naughty step and told her why she was there. Took about 10 mins for her to calm down and say sorry. She is not like this with anyone else. she generally just doesn as she is told. Yet at the momment, it seems that if i say something she just screams no, or just flat refuses to do it.
I will not let her get away with it, and will not back down as i will not let her behave so badly, but does anyone have any idea how else to handle it.... or why shes doiing it?
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defiant 2.9 year old... any advice
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shoptilidrop · 06/10/2008 15:17
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