Not read most of the threads going today on related topics, but seen them arising and tons of times before. Not just here - on other parenting sites and in RL too.
Why are some people so concerned over what other mums and dad's do, in terms of parenting?
Why does it matter if another mum
- wants a natural birth or a cs?
- wants to breast feed or bottle feed, or both?
- wants to co sleep or not?
- wants to wean at 4 months or 6 months?
- wants to use jars of food or make their own?
- lets their child have the odd fast food or only ever has freshly prepared organic stuff?
- follows a strict routine or lets baby lead everything?
- AND any everything in between?
ETC ETC ETC
I know that I am iunterested in people's parenting decisions and their reasons behind it - but that's all. Just interested.
I don't feel it is my right to criticise anyone else (unless causing actual harm.injury obviosuly)?
Just because one way of doing something is right or wrong for me and my circu,stances, it doesn't mean it is right or wrong for someone else - surely?
I just find the perpetual bickering and criticisms between parents so...hmmm.....odd I guess. We pretty mcuch all want the same goal - happy, healthy children. Why does it matter if we all get there in different ways?
Okay, rant over!