I probably already know the answer tbh - lol! This is my first post since joining MN. I've been a regular reader of other people's threads and always found advice and similar situations to my own. I have a 2 year old ds and a 9 month old dd and I am worried that I am not giving either of them the best of my time, or what they need at their individual stages, as most of my time is taken up with just getting through the day (routines, tantrums etc!).
I'm currently a SAHM and I make sure I go out every day come rain or shine for fresh air and exercise but my ds is getting to the stage where a little run around in the garden is not enough exercise for him. When we go out for walks both are in the pram - I don't like to get my ds out of the pram unless we're in the park as he pulls the mother of all tantrums when I try to get him back in! I would love to take him out walking alongside dd in the pram, but I worry he will run off. I would also love to take them both to more classes. I used to take ds to Monkey Music before his sister was born - but I stress myself out that I couldn't take them to eachothers classes and do the two back-to-back in case either of them 'play up'.
I irritate myself cos I know children are unpredictable by their very nature so I should just chill out a bit and see what happens when I attempt these things, but I just wondered if anyone else with two under the age of two has similar worries.
Also, what do other people do to entertain their dcs when they are at different stages, so that they are getting what they need from me (and eachother)?
Thanks for reading my waffle (its been a long day!)
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kittkat · 23/09/2008 19:28
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