My 9yo DS is quite complex. He is quite sensitive about certain things, has always been quite quiet and thinks deeply about everything. He is also a worrier, which, I'm afraid, comes from my side of the family.
About 8 months ago he started taking hours to fall asleep and usually wouldn't go to sleep until myself and DP had gone to bed. After this started he began complaining of tummy pains, every night. The same pattern everyday - home from school, have tea, do homework, bit of TV, bath then complaints about tummy pains just before bed. This went on for weeks. He genuinely believed that he had tummy pains. When told he'll have to see Dr he agreed.
Anyway this stopped after a while and as soon as summer holidays are over, the same thing is happening again. He tells me he hates bedtime and hates his bed. He has made me and DP promise that he is telling the truth about his tummy pains. He says he has "runny toilets" everytime he needs a number 2. However, he is fine all day. Has a healthy appetite, is active, doesn't talk about it until he's about to go to bed. He's taking forever to go to sleep again. We don't shout at him and we've taken his clock out of his room so he wasn't clock watching for hours on end but it's still happening. He sometimes creeps downstairs and gives us the tummy pains speech. We try and be patient and calm but it's just getting silly.
I'm thinking that he's getting himself worked up over going to bed because he's worried he won't fall asleep straight away (as we've said he'll be tired the next day if he loses too much sleep), which in turn is making him actually feel as though he's got a bad stomach - through perhaps nerves???
I am thinking now that we should just take him to the Dr and have tests etc in case there is anything of concern but surely we would notice in other areas if there was anything?
How can we knock this out of him??? It's so silly.....
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9yo DS - not sleeping/tummy pains - all in mind????
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sticktoit · 21/09/2008 22:32
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