Hi
I am finding it such a strain with my ds atm.
I am well aware that as an only he should be going to clubs having plenty of mates around enouraged to go out and play with children in the street etc.
However although my ds does enjoy having a mate home from school I don,t find it easy to arrange all of the time and he is hardly ever invited back, and I do suspect that my ds does think about this as he commented that he would like to go tho other peoples houses instead of them always coming to ours.
I have tried to get him interested in clubs thinking that it will at least give him some outside interest, but he refuses point blank to go to anything and gets really upset if I try to persuade him. He does seem a little shy around people he does not know and I worry about that as well.
I find him very difficult to get interested in any creative activities and sometimes all that he does is sits in front of the telly.
I am at a loss really as to what to do with him.
There are no cousins and I have no mom friends with children the same age so there is not really that sort of stimulation around him.
He refuses to go out and play with any children in the street and insists he doesn,t want to although I suspect that if one of them come up to him and asked him to play he would be off like a shot.
Is this what only children are like I really don,t know what to make of him.
I feel quite depressed about him tbh and wish he had more zest in him.
I have thought about getting him a dog thinking it will give him a companian and bring out his best side.
Please does anybody else have an only like this.
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How can I motivate my only 7 yo ds
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crazedupmom · 16/09/2008 09:37
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